Oh yes, we’re back to the “kinky topics”. Remember my post “How to compare bloody and hard, in a right way?”.
As a person who uses Kik, I often come across random nude pictures and those of male genitalia. I never quite know what to do with them or why they were sent to me.
So as an extremely curious person I decided to ask about it and the next person, who sent me a picture of his not so gloriously erected man part, became my test subject. Uhh.. Test subject might be a bit exaggerated. Well, let’s just say that I thoroughly questioned him.
Basically, what I found out was that
- He tried to wind me up or make me horny
- He thought it’s a good idea
- He was bored
He obviously failed at attempting the first one… Because he did not wind me up in any way. I didn’t get angry, just curious about why it happened, like stated before. Neither he made me uncomfortable or tense because to me genitalia is just like any other organ. Seriously sending me a picture of your penis has the same effect as sending me a picture of your hand. The picture also did not make me tense or horny. Because that’s not how it works.
But yeah I do believe that most females would get extremely uncomfortable if they would get a picture of some random dude’s genitalia or even angry because they did not want to see it. The look of genitalia alone is not too pleasant for most people if they are not sexually involved with the owner of the body part. Also, I don’t think any guy would get turned on if a girl would send them a picture of their genitalia. Yes, ONLY their vagina… Would you even know what it is, close-up on a picture, without anything else around it? So why do guys think a picture of their penis would turn on a girl. It just makes no sense. But you get a gold star for trying… I guess…
Obviously sending out a picture of your erected manhood, to other than your significant other or the person who asked for it, is not a good idea, neither it’s funny or clever or whatever you think it is.
But of course, it’s your body so do whatever you want with it… Same goes for nudes. That seem to be in favor of female population. Personally, I don’t do, take or send nudes. I know that for some long distance couples sending nudes it one of few ways to get sexual in the periods of not seeing each other and I have nothing against that.
Neither I have anything against people who randomly take and distribute their own nudes (or genitalia) for whatever reason. It’s your way of sexual expression and there’s nothing wrong with that. The only problem occurs when people think their personal pictures are safe.
Like c’mon, you put it on the internet or better said on an electronic device. You can’t ignore the fact that someone CAN abuse that (Please note that I didn’t say that they will, only that they can). It baffles me that ladies (and some gents) believe that their personal photos are safe. I’m not saying all ex-partners are assholes who will send out your personal photos, but some are. (If you ever distributed your ex’s nude photos, well you’re not a nice person…) Also, some people just like to “snoop” around and embarrass others.
So basically your nudes are the safest not taken or… You know done the old fashioned way, printed on a paper and saved in a hard cover album.
Anyway, people be safe and don’t be stupid. Even your dick pic or a casual nude can come around and bite you in the ass. We’re already way too exposed on the internet, don’t do something you’ll regret.